march 23
11,000 steps
I do not feel like typing at all. I wish I knew how to speak and have my speaking be typed for me. I made a plan, but no one else did.
Ixcept called yesterday and just before we left to see if they had xray. I was assured both times they did. So, we egot in the car and left immediately since they would close in an hour. Tommy cooperated.
EXCEPT, he left the walker in the yard less than three feet from the car because he was trying to hurry for me.
So, I had to dig out license and insurance cards. Usually, he carries my purse and water because carrying things gets me off balance, so I sway
Plus, how can he go in and be supportive??? I told him to use his canes. CANES??? He did not bring any. Usually, he has four and my four-legged cane.
By this time, I am beside myself. I told him to keep my purse in car. I told him to lock it in the car first, after I got cards and thought he had canes.
I went in, sat down and told them I could not walk to counter. Actually, I cannot stand at counter and talk, pplus, it makes a longer walk.
They came and got my cards and I filled out three pages. MY right arm and elbow, andhand and shoulder were in severe pain.
Tommy came in, walking/shuffling two inches at a time. This is dangerous for him. He said he did it for me. Hell NO. Bring a walker so as not to hurt yourself, too. That is not helpful. Yes, I reamed him out right there. Say nothing about that.
Then, avery nice woman told meI could see someone but could not get an xray. I was very annoyed and she knew it. I was to the point of collapsing. She said she was not the person who told me I could get and xray if I came in. Fair enough. But, employees should know the protocol. It turns out that no one there knew how to do an xray.
I gave her back her pen and clipboard in exchange for my cards. She reached for the papers I had filled out, telling me she would shred them. I told her I would take them home and shred them.
Now, for the really problematic part. I offered to let Tommy hold onto me. He said, yes and held on with both hands. He parked far away and uphill. We both suffered getting to the car! I doubt his steps were even two inches long.
Before this event, we went to get three ads, went to bank, shopped at Publix and did not go to Walgreen's to pick up meds. Everything went well until I was told I could not get an xray fifteen minutes after I was told I could. I have been sleepy all day. This was not good.
I have had messages in for nurses who will talk to doctors. Maybe I will get calls tomorrow, probably while I have a doctor appointment.
Xray is for right him on which I landed on porch! It hurts and is lumpy and swollen. Doctor said it is at some part of hip and cartilage or something is swollen. He said it would be okay, but he does not have xray in his practice. I need to see if this is a problem.
I did not edit this at all unless all letters in a word were wrong and word was indecipherable.
Since I onlymove to go to bathroom, I forced the steps.
Oh, have not had a banana in three weeks. The mouth feel is unbearable! Anne, I understand.
Edit: i forgot to say that I was too tired to get dressed when we went to shop and then went to urgent care. So, I put on my pants, rolled up nightgown and tucked it into waistband. I put on light jacket and looked dressed enough.
I wish doctor offices had walkers people could use as that would help so much! None of mine ever had any, although they did have wheelchairs. Sounds like a rough day for both of you. 😢
ReplyDeleteBelinda,
DeleteRough is putting it mildly. Tommy has quit arguing that he was 'helping' me by leaving the walker at home. Tomorrow, he will put canes in his car. His other walker is in CRV being repaired. I just hope it is still there. He took the trash from car floor, but left the walker.
We have four walkers here. One has no wheels or seat. That and one of the wheeled ones is mine. But, he is welcome to used them and has. I never thought of a doctor's offices having a walker. Good idea.
Belinda, they probably don't have walkers because they could get sued if the person using their walker falls. They could blame the fall on "faulty equipment".
DeleteI think it's crazy that all drs. offices don't have wheelchairs and offer assisted transfers from cars to the office.
My dr finally replaced his wheelchairs after two years not having one.
DeleteYou sound like my darling mother, Linda. When we'd strongly suggest visiting nurses or other health care assistance, or a house cleaner, she'd ALWAYS answer, "Yes, someday--but not just yet..." LOL
ReplyDeleteSue,
DeleteThat is not me at all.
I am very sure doctors don't supply walkers because of fears about liability.
ReplyDeleteIt was a tough day but you did it! We can be resourceful when things are hard
kylie,
DeleteI cannot walk with a walker very far, either. I try hard and it exhausts me.
I am sorry that you had such a horrible experience. I can't imagine how frustrated you must have been with not only your husband, but also the X-ray office.
ReplyDeleteLisa,
DeleteI was beyond frustrated! Thanks.
ouch.
ReplyDeleteFor sure!
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