tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33210845103736316782024-03-19T05:44:36.185-05:00PRACTICAL PARSIMONYSAVING, PARSIMONY, CHICKENS, RECIPES, OBSERVATIONS, SAFARIS, MAKING DO, PRESERVINGLindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.comBlogger2579125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-37101339323551588832024-03-18T16:30:00.001-05:002024-03-18T16:30:12.672-05:00Three Friends--Conversations<p> There are three friends with whom I speak that who older than I am. I am slowly watching, hearing them fade away. It is good to talk with them. However, it is painful to find people not what they were. I know the adult children of all three. </p><p>The relative had a stroke, so is not as 'with it' as she should be. She is confined to a wheelchair. There are days I call her and she does not feel well enough to talk. Medication is often the problem. I learn when I can call. I understand but would hate to lose the connection to a relative. She is 88. I hope never to have a stroke since the two have taken so much from her. We share family stories and have found out so much about our past lives. We can laugh about our life circumstances. Her husband has slowed down, she says, but she has him and children who are very much hands on and supportive.</p><p>The other friend I have known since 1980. She is 85 or a few years older, can barely walk with a walker. She was so active when I met her when she was 40. She could physically work circles around me. Life has taken a toll on her. Since her husband died, she has had many debilitating falls. She sounds weaker all the time. I notice her memory is not what it should be. We still laugh when we reconnect. She was always a friend with whom I laughed. </p><p>The other friend I have known for about ten years. She is 92, fully mobile, needing no help to get around, and until the last few months has been very sharp. Now, she forgets things. She has never fallen. She and her husband were sort of forced to move from one rental to another. I think the lack of trees and flowers at her new home has had an effect on her mental acuity. She is sad about these loses. I know it did take her about three months to recover from the move even with help. Her husband has gotten lost getting to their new home. I have little contact with him, so I am not sure about his mental acuity. </p><p>These are my telephone connections. I do see the 92-year-old friend. I have not seen the relative in decades. The other friend does not go out a lot. And, driving to see her is difficult. </p><p>I would be devastated if I lost either of these three friends. The loss would be indescribable! There are others I know, but with these I have a special relationship. </p><p>The older woman invites us over all the time. The relative is really too far away to visit. The friend who falls may not feel like company. </p><p>Sunday, I was thinking about the health of these three women. This thinking was not ruminating about the 'what ifs' or about their dire futures. Today, Sunday, was a quiet day. So, there was time to think about people with whom I share time and space. All the thoughts were about pleasant conversation we have shared in the last week. </p><p><b>Do you ever spend time quietly contemplating the lives of your older friends and relatives with whom you feel close? Do you worry just a little bit about losing them? </b></p><p>Monday now. The skies were clear, cold wind even though in the 50s.</p><p>Since I slept only three hours last night, I am going for a nap. I will sear a roast and Tommy will peel carrots and potatoes. Add an onion and we will have roast. </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-12844914969284117652024-03-17T13:15:00.002-05:002024-03-17T13:15:59.718-05:00Saturday and St Patrick's Day<p> Saturday was not a bad day, but not necessarily an outstanding day. Except, I am here. I have slept 1.5 hours since 6:30 pm yesterday. UGH!</p><p>A piddling bit of decluttering occurred, mostly what I had cluttered on Friday and Saturday. Otherwise, it would get to be so messy. It was not enough to even mention. But, of course, every little bit of decluttering helps in the long run. </p><p>I decided to just go ahead to the grocery to get things Tommy found in the Publix Ad. He had circled things--zucchini, cheese curls. He took back the receipt where we had been charged for Aquafina water when what he got was Dasani 2/$9. Two Aquafina 24 packs were about $15. So, because of the mix-up, he was charged for only one of the Dasani. That was a $4.50 savings. Plus, he recouped the almost $8 where he was overcharged.</p><p>Then, we went to Food Giant where he brought the ads out to me, and we examined them to shop right then instead of going back another day. There was nothing we wanted or needed on sale.</p><p>Because I am so tired, I wanted a chocolate milkshake or cone. We got a milkshake at DQ. Mine had something nasty and brown and hard. No, it was not chocolate. I become extra foolish when I am exhausted and cannot resist fattening stuff. I always forget that DQ has horrible chocolate milkshakes because I only get one about every two years. They discontinued the chocolate soft serve cones, my favorite ice cream from DQ. I did not want anything else.</p><p>In the meantime, I remembered I had not gotten carrots, so he went back into Publix for carrots and brought out chocolate ice cream, too. I forgot we need onion. Remember, my brain is rattled. </p><p>We will have another white dinner, I suppose. However, I want slaw with my chicken. Potatoes will be for Tommy. I want chicken with BBQ sauce and slaw. </p><p>For some reason, I still have the weight loss from the intestinal upset. And, I am losing more weight. That is a bad sign. I am certainly eating enough to gain the weight back. I will need to address that Monday with a doctor or appointment. </p><p>Friday, we cooked six bscb, ate one between us, so have five left. I froze three of those in separate freezer bags. We will appreciate these on days we don't want to cook or have a late day out. </p><p>I napped for four hours, getting up at 10 pm. I ate no dinner, just pbj sandwich and milk. I think.</p><p>Happy St. Patrick's Day</p><p>We have absolutely nothing planned to celebrate the day. The shamrock on the front door will come down after dark. I bought the shamrock about three or four years a day at a clearance sale, so not much spent. I don't own anything green to wear; Tommy has a shirt that says "Elder" on the sleeve. It is something he wore to some sort of church conferences. I do have a button with a shamrock on it. </p><p>Karolina and her brothers. <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qyiIdEAG1Fg">Hallelujah - Karolina Protsenko & Her Brothers (youtube.com)</a></p><p>I love this channel.</p><p>Now, I need to get busy decluttering my table. I might do a bit more. This is the only way I can keep more clutter happening. It never seems like much, but it works for me. </p><p>I think a nap is in order since I never sleep more than 3 or 4 hours when I go to bed.</p><p>What are you eating or wearing to mark the green day?</p><p>Are you Irish? I am Scots-Irish on my mother's side. </p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-1165608208358110192024-03-16T03:04:00.004-05:002024-03-16T03:04:27.745-05:00White DinnerThankfully, the weather did not affect us. We kept our electricity. There were terrific winds and rain that kept us in. As usual, I could not sleep at all. I have forgotten when I slept today.<div><br /></div><div>The Valentine's Day balloon is still going strong. At the rate it is deflating, we will have this on the 4th of July. I will not ever want another. Since I am not a teen apt to tape the balloon to my bedroom wall, and I hate to throw it in the trash, and do not want to keep it, I will find it hard to toss it. <br /><div><br /></div><div>I did sleep from 10:30 until midnight. I did sleep from 2 pm until 6:30. Tommy woke me and told me to get up, it's 6:30. I could not figure out what he was talking about. UGH I could have slept longer. I did cook dinner. I cut eyes out of red potatoes. They went into a cooking bag with seasoned chicken. I had cooked cabbage last night. </div><div><br /></div><div>We had a white dinner--baked chicken breasts, baked potatoes, cabbage. Obviously, I did not plan for it all to be white. The chicken was next thing we were going to cook. The cabbage had been here about three months. It smelled like rotten produce. But, when I peeled off the awful leaves, it was perfect. And, it no longer smelled. Dinner was delicious. The spices on the chicken did add color. </div><div><br /></div><div>I have been watching this young <a href="https://www.bing.com/videos/riverview/relatedvideo?q=karolina+violin+every+step+you+take&mid=82A04CB6F4C13B2EA1DE82A04CB6F4C13B2EA1DE&FORM=VIRE">violinist</a>, She dances as she plays. She is talented. Maybe you will enjoy her, too. <br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Since I could not keep my eyes open, I took a nap. I got up at midnight. So, that is it. Nothing happened today. </div></div>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-67187450955083434252024-03-15T02:15:00.000-05:002024-03-15T02:15:47.073-05:00BOGO deals, Cicadas, Pollen<p> Thursday morning, I was still awake at 10:45, and I was sitting waiting for Tommy to wake up so we could go shopping early. I wanted to go back to sleep! I told him to eat breakfast so we could go. He said, "Oh, let's just go get a burger since it is lunch time." Well, I could not resist. I wanted to go to Arby's for a cheddar cheese with horseradish sauce. We did. </p><p>We shopped the rest of the grocery shopping for Publix today. Tommy was fussing and fretting about getting more butter. Kerry Gold was on sale, so I wanted to try it bogo. He kept telling me I had a dozen boxes in the freezer. Well, now I have two more boxes. Kerry was $4.99 for 1/2 lb, two sticks. BOGO, I got it for $2.49 for two sticks, a half pound. Every single item I bought was bogo! I didn't buy the olive oil because it was in a plastic bottle. </p><p>I told him to call me when he found the olive oil on bogo. The first thing he said when he called me was, "It's in a plastic bottle." He remembers mostly what I tell him about food shopping. </p><p>All this cost $41.54 before food tax ($3.74) Savings was $31.44. I just put the bogo price below.</p><p>Kerry butter $2.50 x 2</p><p>Kelloggs Special K $2.84 x2</p><p>Kraft Medium Cheddar Chunk $2.39 x4</p><p>Spice Island spices $2.30 x 4 (2 onion powder and 2 garlic powder)</p><p>I forgot that we bought two non-bogo items</p><p>Nature's Own Honey Wheat bread $4.11 x1</p><p>red potatoes 5 lbs, $5.99 x 1</p><p>The bread and potatoes were cheaper at The Pig, but he did not want to go there. He was doing all the shopping because I do not feel up to going in and driving the electric cart. Getting out of the car causes him much pain. Getting his walker out is hard. Getting back into the car is also difficult and painful. The last walker weighed 15 lbs. The new one weighs 25 lbs. If he just refuses to go to another store even for savings, I rarely insist. When I feel halfway well, I always go in and shop. </p><p>My gastro problems continue, albeit not so severe and not so sudden onset. My nutrition is suffering. I tend not to want any fiber. </p><p>When I got into the car today, I noticed the pollen on the windshield. Then, I noticed pollen on lens of my glasses. I only walked about 40 feet or less to the car. Imagine the pollen we collect on our clothing and hair after being out longer than I was out. </p><p>Today, I lay down for a nap. Soon, my ankles started itching. I gave in and scratched them with other foot. Finally, I was sooo hot. I got up and out of bed. The room was even warmer at head height. I stumbled into the hall, and it was still hot, just not so suffocating. The heat on thermostat was 75! And, it was set on HEAT, so no ac was ever coming on. I turned on ac and sat in living room. After an hour, the living room was bearable. So, I went back to bed at about 4 pm, got up at 11:30pm. I take sleep when I can get it. </p><p>For dinner Tommy had the other half of a can of chili he opened on Wednesday, and an apple. At midnight, I made for my dinner an egg salad sandwich from two of the eggs I boiled earlier this week. I may eat something else, maybe not. </p><p>Tommy did three loads of clothes while I slept. He hung the bathroom rugs outdoors, so they are back. He even hung up two of my nightgowns and the panties that were in one load. There were three wash loads and two for dryer, and one hung up. </p><p>Friday will be lots of rain and bad weather, so we will be in all day with no plans for going out. We don't need anything or have any appointments. This week has been warm, dry, and beautiful. The next three days will not. Then, the clear and warm days return next week. The next weekend will be rainy, also. It seems that weekends are always rainy lately.</p><p>I am wondering if the cicadas will destroy any flowers I have or buy. Maybe I won't buy flowers until after they are gone. I just don't want to crunch them underfoot!</p><p>Are you in the area/states where cicadas will return? </p><p>Was your weather unseasonably warm today? </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-35275661559081994802024-03-13T21:15:00.001-05:002024-03-14T01:49:57.148-05:00Shiny Brite and Pests<p> Do you have Shiny Brite ornaments? I have about a dozen. Not only that, I have two empty boxes that do say Shiny Brite. These ornaments are worth lots. Even the empty boxes are valuable. </p><p>The link below is no longer available.</p><p><a href="https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/personalfinance/these-vintage-christmas-tree-ornaments-are-worth-good-money-today/vi-BB1jnJLJ?ocid=msedgntp&pc=HCTS&cvid=0c67a6f4b299489eabf825988d8b8434&ei=34">These Vintage Christmas Tree Ornaments Are Worth Good Money Today | Watch (msn.com)</a></p><p>Try this one.</p><p><a href="https://www.bing.com/shop?q=Shiny+Brite+Ornaments+Vintage&FORM=QSRE1">Shiny Brite Ornaments Vintage - Search Shopping (bing.com)</a></p><p>Tuesday night, I sat up all night, until 8:30 am. My stomach was jumping. That is the only way I can explain it. But, that is the way it felt just before throwing up. If I could just NOT eat, I would feel better. Then, the fear from the other end has kept me running to the bathroom. </p><p>About noon, it seemed as though chest congestion was going to do me in. I have no idea what is happening. Then, my other kidney started hurting worse than the right kidney. </p><p>Tuesday night while I sat up, I made a list from the ads online. Of course, today we left too late to really shop. We left here are 6 and got back at 7:30 pm. The holdup was a prescription. I made all the arrangements yesterday to pick up that night or this morning. We got there and there was noone attending the window. A sign said they were short-staffed, to come inside. </p><p>That meant Tommy had to go in! I saw people go in and come right back out with a prescription, so I was annoyed. It turned out that the computer goofed. Yeah, that was the reason. </p><p>As we drove through the parking lot to Publix, I saw Burger King straight ahead. So, you know what happened. It was only a Whopper Jr. with lettuce, tomato, and lettuce. </p><p>As it was starting to get darker, I scrapped the list for only two items. He bought water and my 1/2 birthday item. The choices were a bar cake, ice cream, frozen yogurt and something else frozen. This offer of 1/2 price on these items was welcome. Then, he called and said there was no chocolate cake. I chose red velvet. </p><p>I asked him what kind of frosting. It was so funny as he said, "it is off-white" and continued. I told him I did not ask him the color, but what was in the icing. Well, he finally found someone who went to the cake and picked it up and read to him. He did not know it would be on the label. </p><p>It was dark when we arrived home. Of course, I feel like throwing up and the lower problem is back and body systems have expressed great unhappiness. </p><p><b>A Surprise</b></p><p>When I awoke, Tommy had contacted a pest control and there was an email waiting. So, I called and we are getting pest control that comes initially, and then every few months. I was shocked. Fleas and roaches were the focus of my complaints. Tommy is having the whole yard treated for fleas. There is a list of other pests they control, too. I never thought I would poison the whole yard. I never thought he would pay for something this expensive. </p><p>Hopefully, this last spraying and spraying will last to hold back the fleas until the guy can get here next week. There is no telling how much poison we will ingest from this professional spraying. I think I saw one small spider in this house, no ants, just roaches and a few tiny bugs caught on a glue board. Oh, I did see one ant coming in the front door. I killed it and saw no more. </p><p>I have been asking him every few days about the pest control and mowing guy. However, he was the one to mention pest control...not my idea. Yes, he did call Keith to mow. </p><p>Do you have Shiny Brite ornaments? </p><p>Have you ever had them?</p><p>Do you or have you ever had pest control? </p><p>Does it work? Are you wary of the poison? </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-13204089857068453592024-03-12T21:32:00.000-05:002024-03-12T21:32:20.941-05:00Cleaner Came; Today Was a Winner<p> This person is the daughter of my friend who died last Fall. I mentioned needing someone. She said she might be able to help me. She lives halfway between Cullman and Birmingham. She cleans for several people. One moved to Hoover several years ago, so she still goes to her house every three weeks or once a month. She emailed me and said she could come today. </p><p>I had told her I needed someone to help me get the last of the Christmas items boxed and put away. Well, I got to thinking about that. These few little things are hurting no one. What I really needed was someone to make my bed since it took Tommy and I so long, 45 minutes to put on two sheets, spread and blanket. </p><p>Plus, the reindeer were still out, baby on the porch, doe and buck in carport. Even though they were not in rain, they were still in dampness and sun and wind. We have large, gold glitter everywhere!</p><p>She made my bed and took apart the deer and put them in a box. She took them inside to tape. She and Tommy were doing it when I managed to get inside. She stayed an hour and Tommy gave her $25. We gave her the candy canes, making her happy. She said she would give them to people at church. She works with children, so I suppose they will go to her class. </p><p>The bed frame was on the grass with a FREE sign on it. While we were taping, someone took it--the mailman. I was shocked and asked Tommy how he got it in the truck. It seems he knew how to take it apart. I knew it came apart, but could not figure out how. Well, it was too hard. I am glad someone took it who can use it instead of selling it for scrap. Well, he might be doing that, but I don't care. </p><p>Within three minutes of her leaving, I was getting into bed after changing into a clean nightgown. As I turned and over to sleep on my left side, I felt funny. Well, I barely had time to roll over and sit up as I threw up over and over again into nightgown I had on. I had Tommy hand me the nightgown on top of dirty clothes, put it under the bulge in my nightgown. Once I got both nightgowns in waste basket, I realized liquid was on my panties and then on fresh, clean sheets. A wipe got off the dampness on sheet. Thankfully, it was like one drop. </p><p>So, here I am sleepy, naked, still sick feeling! I had to get up. It's been over an hour and a half. I ate crackers very slowly, very slowly. I almost choked on them. I wonder if this is related to other GI problem I had. </p><p>Oh, I asked my friend how her father was doing. She said he remarried three weeks ago. She laughed and said he needed someone to do all the things her mother did for him. She was okay with his remarrying so soon. I certainly don't care. </p><p>Tommy has been outside rinsing nightgowns under the faucet since he cannot get the hose onto the faucet. The poor man has been doing a lot of laundry in the last few days. The faucet is so low that he cannot bend to use it. He must put his head against the brick wall to get to the faucet. I will have the faucet extended upward so we both can use it. </p><p>Other than the cleaner coming, the mailman coming, the bed frame going, my and being sick, today has seemed like Sunday. </p><p>I wanted to get meat on sale at Food Giant, so we finally left to get meds and meat. Walgreen's still did not have Victoza, so I transferred to CVS, Tommy went in and got top round roast for $4.99/lb., and a box of Graham crackers. The roast was almost $12. I will cut it in two pieces and freeze half. Maybe I will cut it into three pieces. </p><p>We needed to get Dasani water, but there was none yesterday. I called and they had plenty. On Wednesday it is bogo. We can wait. </p><p>My nap was 1.5 hours, not nearly enough. I still feel like I will be sick again. All in all, today was a winner. </p><p>I will cancel the doctor appointment tomorrow. I cannot ride an hour to allergist! I hate that, too. </p><p>Tommy found his own dinner--meatballs from freezer, broccoli from refrigerator, and a little can of red beans and rice. I had Graham Crackers and later cooked ground beef on bread. I hope it stays down. </p><p>Plans for tomorrow revolve around collecting ads and buying at least water and whatever else is on sale, clearance, or bogo. </p><p>What did you get accomplished today?</p><p>What are your plans for tomorrow? </p><p><br /></p><p>-</p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-91878063201732725862024-03-11T22:29:00.000-05:002024-03-11T22:29:06.981-05:00Liar, Liar and TMI and 60th Reunion<p>TMI section is marked below, so you will know when to stop. </p><p>I was told today that mattresses are measured from the middle instead of on the side. No, not true at all. Every person in the mattress business laughed hard from Canada to Cullman. </p><p>My new mattress is not helping me go to sleep faster or sleep longer. I did not buy it to put me to sleep. However, I hurt less when awake and walking is easier. Plus, I can turn over and get in and out of the bed more easily. My lower back thanks me. Sunday night, I could not keep my eyes open, so I went to sleep around 10:30. Great, right? /s Well, I slept two hours and was only able to go back to sleep at 1 pm today. </p><p>Sunday night, I dropped the wireless remote trying to pick it up from the bedside table. When I awake, I need to go the bathroom RIGHT NOW. So, this was an emergency. The rules for using the mattress state that I cannot get off the bed with head or feet elevated even a little bit. So, Tommy had to come and get it for me. </p><p>Now, the small, slippery remote lives in a mesh bag, the kind to wash lingerie. I can feel the little control buttons. I just leave it in the bed and sleep with it. I need to find a ribbon, tie it to the bag, and pin the bag to my pillow or the sheet. Okay, I am using the ribbon that was tied around the sheets like a gift. Maybe I should just tie it to my wrist. /s</p><p><b>TMI below.</b></p><p>I cannot imagine what I ate, but it appeared to be food poisoning. The problem is that Tommy and I ate exactly the same thing and it was all prepared here and very fresh. Leftovers were only one day old. No, I never threw up. But, there was laundry to be done, lots of laundry. Lots! </p><p>However, it is not all bad. I was down 15 pounds from the last time I weighed. I was in a doctor's office. I weighed and had on a long, heavy sweater with a cell phone in my pocket and heavy shoes on. So, I probably actually lost almost ten pounds in two minutes. Tommy believes it was an overly heavy olive oil dressing on pasta. I think he is correct. If I could do this once a week for ten weeks, I could love a cool 100 lbs. </p><p>Since I am having 60th Class Reunion, that would be great. That sound harsh--60 years since I graduated. What reunion is coming up for you this year? </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-87580581904234223102024-03-10T21:30:00.002-05:002024-03-11T05:38:42.620-05:00Mattress Update<p> The new bed is like a board with a blanket over it and I love it! I raise the head just a smidgen and the feet a bit more. My feel lose most of the swelling. The right foot looks skinny and almost normal. The left foot is still swollen a bit. Now, If I could sleep longer than 3 or 4 hours. </p><p>It is so wonderful not to be wallowing in a mattress. I sleep on my side, so lying on my side in a bent mattress is not possible without pain to my back and knees, hence sleeping only with a bit of bend in the mattress is great. </p><p>I could write a whole post about the two delivery guys, two Hispanic guys from Atlanta. I told Tommy I would stay in the bedroom and he could sit in other end of the hall to see how things went. Neither guy hit anything bringing things out or in. They were personable and polite. 'Personable' is not a requirement, but it helped. </p><p>They carried the metal bed frame to the road. I will put a free sign on it. They carried Tommy's parent's bed that is broken and the slats to back bedroom. I have lived with that for five years, just propped against the wall. They carried the bedside table behind the bed to kitchen just to get it out so they could work. Plus, queen bed did not leave enough room for it. The bedside table I use was place just inside the other bedroom in order to make room for assembly. </p><p>Delivery men have been annoying over the years. One almost took off the door frame. Another ran into an antique table. When I told him to be careful, he said he had to get in some way. Now, I do move things, valuable or not, out of the way. Another took a bag of tools and threw on yet another antique table, one with pie crust edge and inlay. I gasped and asked him to remove it and be careful. He snorted and said he had to put them somewhere. NO! </p><p>The washing machine and the freezer were delivered from Huntsville, AL when there is a Lowe's about then miles from here. </p><p>Tommy said the truck they were driving had the name of another business scratched off. So, these guys may be two enterprising guys with their own delivery service. Good for them. </p><p>Tommy gave them each $15 apiece. That was all he had in his wallet. </p><p>The salesman said mattresses are measure from the very center of the mattress, not on the side. I doubt this. </p><p>My back still hurts when I get out of bed and walk. But, the pain lasts fewer minutes. This mattress won't cure my back, but it will help mitigate the pain and damage to my spine. </p><p>Sleep would help. I did not sleep the night before the bed and mattress was delivered. Then, I slept 3 hours and another 2 hours. I did not sleep Saturday night, and finally went to bed and slept at 2:30 Sunday, sleeping another 6:30.</p><p>DST should help things. I love it. Tommy hung our shamrock on the door. I bought it one year dirt cheap on clearance. </p><p>Next project--irrigation for potted plants on porch and ramp. Maybe I can sneak things into the ground this year. He seems more amenable to doing things. Of course, another car for both of us is still a top priority. </p><p>Have you ever bought a mattress sight and feel unseen or felt?</p><p>What type mattress do you like? Soft? Hard like mine? Pillowtop? </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-90011528761285195962024-03-09T14:58:00.000-06:002024-03-09T14:58:05.243-06:00I Have a New Bed<p> Now, I am going to go and get back into it. </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-48925424098864189592024-03-08T23:00:00.002-06:002024-03-08T23:00:51.502-06:00My Mother's Birthday<p> Today, March 8, 1921, my mother was born, six months after her father was killed. She had an older brother-6, and a sister-4. An older brother had the year before, shortly after his birth. They went to live with her mother's mother on 'the old homeplace' my great-grandfather had settled in the 1800s when he came from North Carolina and bought 90 acres. My mother would be 103-years-old today.</p><p>Back in the 1970s and beyond, Spring break for Alabama schools was the first full week in March as I remember it. So, we made it for her birthday most years. There was the occasional year that her birthday did not fall during the break, so those were the only years my three children and I did not descend on her home. </p><p>Today was spent arguing with furniture delivery system. I do not want a delivery that is scheduled from 7-9 am in the morning. I was told I could have changed it. "They will call you the day before and you can tell them when to come." Now, it would just have to be canceled. I desperately need this mattress and base. </p><p>I did find out online that they will vacuum the space where the bed will replace the one taken out. Of course, they will wear shoe covers and gloves, thankfully. The vacuuming and shoe covers and gloves are in the contract that no one told me about. I certainly do not want this heavy bed and frame put on 40-year-old dusty carpet. I cannot imagine not vacuuming a space for that many years. If I could handle the vacuum, I would have no problem vacuuming after they removed the old mattresses and bed frame. Tommy is keeping the full-size bed frame. </p><p>We had plans such as grocery ads pickup and grocery shopping. But, the rain came in early and stayed all day. Tommy went out in sprinkles to get the mail, but no laundry was done since he must walk in the rain. He would do it if I asked, but I won't ask.</p><p>I have moved a few things in the bedroom this afternoon, had a nap. Now, at 10:30 pm, we need to move more things in the bedroom. I am still very disappointed with the information I have been given, especially disinformation by the company. </p><p>Tommy says the plants in the dark laundry room are all really growing tall, so it is time for those to come out into the sun and rain and have some fertilizer. And, plans for carrots are coming along.</p><p>Did the rain spoil plans for today? </p><p>Or, was it good for things you have planted?</p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-87152384199349221772024-03-08T00:09:00.001-06:002024-03-08T00:09:30.197-06:00Lots Done Today<p> I was very discouraged when I noticed behind the bathroom door had not been swept. Then, I actually looked around the bathroom better. I was seduced by the clean area in the middle of the floor. Then, Tommy put the clean rugs on the floor. She had not swept the corner most visible in the room or the three less visible ones. One woman did this, the hotel cleaner, while her mother used the vacuum. </p><p>These women did nothing! Well, nothing to call themselves cleaners. The mother did vacuum about one foot into one bedroom, six inches into another, and an area about 6x6 feet in my bedroom. This was all I asked. The whole bathroom in 6x9 feet, so little to do. The tub, commode and a large vanity cover most of that. Yet, she could not get the floor at least swept! She did not clean under chair or table in the kitchen. I did not even check that. </p><p>I know, I know...I said vacuum. So, if I had it to do over, I would expect her to drag a vacuum into the bathroom and move chairs in kitchen to vacuum under them. Actually, sweeping and Swiffering was easier and faster. Plus, there were two of them. Was one going to stand when she was here? </p><p>Tommy spent at least an hour hurting himself, digging around in his mound of stuff. I asked what he was doing...getting stuff out of the way so she could vacuum. I used a reacher getting stuff up in front of my chair and out into the floor--kleenex, receipt, and tiny items, scraps. We did other things to prepare. We are not stupid or uncaring of their time and energy. However, this is not hotel cleaning. </p><p>Anyone that has ever cleaned has not stopped to lecture me on what I hired them to do. Picking up one extra thing should not be a dealbreaker. Yet, they expected me to call again soon. Well, they were talking like I would. </p><p>Looking into the kitchen, I found a disposable pie pan in the area not under the table, an area that should have been cleaned. One way or another, it would have been picked up by a conscientious floor cleaner. There was a box, sink, table and counter an arm's length away. </p><p>I will not publish more unfounded criticism of my handling of the situation. I am done.</p><p>Today, Tommy washed my new sheets with an additional sheet and pillowcases, a load of clothing, and a load with the quilt I put over my chair. I spilled food all over me and it. I gather clothing, he washes and dries, and I mostly put them away or hang the wet items not going into the dryer. There are two more loads to do tomorrow and black clothes for Saturday. </p><p>Tonight, we roasted a pan of chicken, carrots and potatoes. Delicious. There is enough for two more meals. Yay! Plus, there is still slaw which I forgot to mention to Tommy. </p><p>Tommy bought another bogo bscb package when he went in today to get three half gallons of my milk, and bananas. </p><p>I made an appointment with dentist and allergist. Both are long overdue. The heating guy checked out Tommy havac unit. It is natural gas.</p><p>Now, I need to go over the rest of the Publix ad and Pig ad. We have one more ad to pick up tomorrow. </p><p>I cannot wait until the farmer's market here opens. We are discussing planting carrots. What are you planning to grow?</p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-13569944730688273372024-03-06T21:09:00.001-06:002024-03-06T21:09:11.930-06:00Cleaners and CT Results<p> 1:30</p><p>Cleaners are here. They will never come back. For the two of them, it is $25/hr. That is fine. They will only vacuum for that price. I asked them to wipe down the dusty baseboards in hall. Well, that will be more per hour. She said they only agreed to vacuum. I am confused. So, one is sweeping the bathroom so it can be vacuumed once gathered. I would rather get a price and have them do whatever I need that pops up. </p><p>I want the kitchen swept then Swiffered. They agreed to do that for the $25 price. Whatever. I told them where water and Coke are located and not to take drinks from kitchen. They did not bring masks after I asked them to do so. They offered to leave and go buy some. No. They are using the gloves I supplied. </p><p>Both came to the front door carrying a vacuum. Nope, want mine used. The vacuums look so tiny, easy to use, I suppose. Mine has a hepa filter. I doubt theirs do. </p><p>I can understand just enough Spanish to know they were discussing the bathroom. That is a problem for them. This is too much for me to deal with right now. I had three hours sleep and just want to go to bed.</p><p>Maybe they will be back, but this is too much. She said wiping baseboards in only the hall was 'deep cleaning' and they did not agree to that. The daughter works at a hotel. So, she is making rules for all of us. That is okay, but it is not like other cleaners have worked like they worked. </p><p>The last cleaner only put together the deer. That is okay, too, because when she tried starting trouble between Tommy and me, she was out of line. So, no cleaning by her, that I remember. </p><p>Okay, they stayed less than one hour and we paid $25 which is totally fine as far as price and what they did. I have never heard of baseboards in only the hall being called 'deep cleaning.'</p><p>We had a talk before they left concerning what they would do and price. It is still $25/hr. That seems too little for two people. The mother mentioned 'coming in and doing a whole house cleaning one day' for one price. Well, I told her that that would be twelve hours at the least, and I could not last that long. </p><p>I asked if their vacuum cleaners had a hepa filter. They assured me they had a filter. They had never heard of hepa filters. So, we will use my vacuum. </p><p>The kind of person I need is someone who will do what I need in time allotted. If I need refrigerator emptied and cleaned, living room dusted, and commode cleaned, that is what I need. I have limited energy to deal with someone even being here. </p><p>I was pleased it took the mother a long time to vacuum the hall. I was afraid she would run down it once and call it done. No, she did a good job. The daughter wanted to vacuum the bathroom, too. But, I wanted it swept to the door and then the swept stuff vacuumed. There is no way to get a vacuum beside either side or back of the commode. Getting behind the door would require the vacuum be taken into the bathroom and the door being shut. </p><p>She did Swiffer the kitchen, not sure how well. I deliberately bought a Swiffer and the wet pads to make it easier and more palatable to cleaners to mop the kitchen floor. Now, it is not sticky in places or has crunchy things on the floor. I cannot stand that. Tommy says he never notices...lol. </p><p>The carpet in living room and hall feel so nice to my bare feet and look plush. </p><p>I did take a nap. Between the cleaners and the nap, we went to The Pig to get bread and 2 coleslaw mixes and an ad. There was one mix at home which I made for dinner. I had the last of the turkey breast with at least two cups of slaw for dinner. I told Tommy to give me lots of slaw, and he did. </p><p>In The Pig, I had an adventure, a good name for an accident. The cart had two of the vertical pieces of metal bent outward. As I was squeezing through a display on the aisle, the vertical metal snagged a six-pack of beer. It spewed all over me and a customer before it even left the stack. Of course, a pack above fell off and slid down the snagged pack right into my cart. Three more hit the floor. The nice customer put all the leaking ones, snagged packs, and one of the floor back into the display. I doubt the workers can find the ones damaged. But, the whole side of the display would have been on the floor if he had not fixed the gap. </p><p>Fun, fun, fun at the Pig.</p><p>The women tried to figure out how to schedule me. I explained that with doctor appointments and such, we could not just have them every Monday or some other day. </p><p>Speaking of doctors, the CT showed nothing for knot in side, pain in kidney or any abnormality of pancreas, and no gallstones. I didn't think stones just went away. They were there and now they are not. I am confused. Nurse had no explanation. </p><p>While I was sleeping, he was searching around in the upright freezer for food. He found meatballs, and a package of frozen slices of bell pepper. He added that to the meatballs and used diced onion still in the refrigerator, stirring it all together for him. Plus, he had lots of coleslaw, too. He seems so happy to find food. </p><p>Tommy said he will call exterminator for the yard tomorrow. He has also agreed that painting the wood on the brick exterior black would look nice. The color now is either green or brown, faded. Before, he said he like that color. Good news all around.</p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-80767293176399909722024-03-06T00:05:00.000-06:002024-03-06T00:05:03.503-06:00Happenings Today<p> This afternoon, I called the person who was to clean last week when I was still in the doctor's office. The person who answered had an accent and seemed to have no problem understanding me. Then, she said, "Just a moment." The same voice came back without an accent--her daughter, I presume. She had no idea about the cleaning cancelled last week. I was confused. She was confused. I had used Tommy's phone last week. Maybe that is why she said she did not have the address. She will come tomorrow. </p><p>At any rate, I had four fleas bite me last evening. I caught one and drowned it in Tommy's coffee. It was struggling to get away from me as it was trapped under my thumb nail running back and forth. The other hopped away. I was awake all night from the itch! This afternoon, I sprayed again. Tommy vacuumed some but not everywhere I sprayed. </p><p>We finally got my meds that doctor called in. From now on, I will ask for refill when I will be out in ten days. Between primary doctor and pharmacy, I often must go without med for heart or diabetes for a week or more. That is just not right. </p><p>I am so happy that DST will start this weekend. I am utterly sick of the short days. The tulip tree across the street has fully bloomed now, so that is something to cheer me up. </p><p>Finally, Tommy has agreed to replace the storm door. Well, he did not agree to replacing the door. He just acted like it was his idea. I can see light all around it and around the front door, too. Maybe he will agree to replacing that or insulating it. Mosquitoes, flies, and roaches have easy access to indoors right now. I point this out often. </p><p>I need to buy one of those plastic pieces to put on a corner where he rams his walker into it. I don't know if I can put it up, but at least I will have supplies for the person who can. I am glad I don't have any furniture he can hit. He never hits furniture anywhere else, just here! I know there is a less obvious way to protect the corner which could be done correctly with a lot more trouble. But, this will work. </p><p>My mattress and base will be delivered this week. YAY! Sheets will be here beforehand so I can wash them. I still need a bed. So, storm door and car shopping will commence. Before we buy cars, I need to find out the process and how much room for clearance I need for a scooter to be pulled inside. Tommy cannot lift one. Well, he could if he absolutely had to, but it is too much for him. </p><p>Just now, I had a bowl of Greek yogurt sitting on the table by my chair. I reached for it and saw a speck in it, no larger than a speck of pepper. It was a flea! I suppose the bright light and white yogurt attracted him. </p><p>Right now, I am boiling eggs since I have no bread and no cereal. I do need something to eat...lol--brunch or linner. We won't be shopping before morning. Tomorrow, I will bake chicken and vegetables. We had just enough for a meal tonight. I need to make more slaw and open a can of green beans. </p><p>Today, we made a quick trip to Bessemer. We passed a man and woman starting a fire at the base of a tall tree, right against the tree on the roots of the tree which was about ten feet from the house. What on earth? We came back by and they had quit, and fire was out, I think. Rain probably caused them to stop. </p><p>So, not much happening today. </p><p>How about at your house? I have not seen ads yet online. Are there any good deals at your stores?</p><p><br /></p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-58287766783436173012024-03-05T05:07:00.004-06:002024-03-05T05:07:52.991-06:00It's a Beginning<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiEXOZEBE6TOnUfFZcM9JZpFUrbOG3mNTWRPWXmksAHAsJg144uEJxiyH-ODFDVw5THwErno6BJxoGBoDBSG3li5Lx3vJUc1d6f3MNaChFyLdCr5QPXLMUbboyMEWI_k5GuUec6yzm2k9LatzedcKcN8fpX_zcoxv9af8WZGgO5Oet4hrBrf4-g4l1RDLw" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="435" data-original-width="435" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiEXOZEBE6TOnUfFZcM9JZpFUrbOG3mNTWRPWXmksAHAsJg144uEJxiyH-ODFDVw5THwErno6BJxoGBoDBSG3li5Lx3vJUc1d6f3MNaChFyLdCr5QPXLMUbboyMEWI_k5GuUec6yzm2k9LatzedcKcN8fpX_zcoxv9af8WZGgO5Oet4hrBrf4-g4l1RDLw" width="240" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p>What have you done lately to 'seize the day?'</p><p>I have another question. I found a woman to clean. As I spoke with her, her husband took the phone and talked with me. Her business is in her name. At least the cleaning business on the business card is in her name. He said the daughter is coming to in order to translate. I had to cancel, forgot why. I talked with her for five minutes and she did not seem at all confused as to what I said. She and husband are Hispanic. </p><p>Now, I am not sure what is happening. The daughter may need to drive her. Or, maybe she does not like to drive. Not sure. So, when the daughter comes, should I let her work, too? Vacuuming up to things will work for me, but lifting a few boxes would make the place cleaner. I am not expecting anyone to lift heavy boxes. Besides, anyone can use my walker to transport a box to another room, which I don't need anyone to do. </p><p>When I say I want someone to vacuum, how much translating is needed. Besides, I can speak a bit of Spanish. And, I can type what I want and have it translated for her. </p><p>I think $25 is a lot to vacuum as much as I need. I asked for an hourly rate after he told me she charge $25 for vacuuming. Once she is here, I will pay what she wants at least once. I will not argue or short her. </p><p>What is your take on this situation. I will not pay the daughter a dime if she does nothing but translate. </p><p><br /></p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-32741691514973798432024-03-03T19:37:00.001-06:002024-03-03T19:37:09.372-06:00Little to See Here Except for Surgery Results<p> Friday, I decided to go to a food giveaway. There is always good food we don't want. However, we never waste it. We took the food we did not want to a store and stopped someone in the parking lot and gave it to her. The person was grateful. </p><p>I could not tell if it was a man or woman. The figure was very tall and inordinately thin. The figure was rather androgenous. However, the tall soft boots with a stacked heel led me to believe it was a woman. The person had a very long scarf around the neck. </p><p>This was shocking as we drove closer. The person had most of the lower jaw missing, numerous scars, and still little clue to gender. There was a round plastic piece, about the size of a nickel on the jaw. I supposed it held things together. At the time and in retrospect, I assumed this was one of the drastic jaw surgeries that occur after cancer, usually caused by tobacco. I have seen the aftermath of these surgeries on TV but never in person. I fest for her. I was also thankful I never smoked. Of course, smoking may have had nothing to do with her condition. </p><p>I explained where we got it, how we did not want it even though it was frozen and good. "Would you please take it, and if you don't want it share it with friends or family or neighbors? And, if you don't want it, feed it to cat or dog or chickens. Please help us out."</p><p>She said in the softest voice, "You are kind. You are kind." I was moved. I could never have imagined I would have seen a person with this problem when I left the house. </p><p>What we kept: Three pounds of ground beef, 4 pounds of honey-baked ham (not the real stuff), slices of ham from deli, package of six bscb, loaf of rye bread, and4 nice rolls that just fit the deli ham slices, fresh greens stuff for sandwiches. All was frozen, so the ham is in the freezer. I will cook the bscb Monday or Tuesday. Tommy is enjoying the deli ham on the rolls. </p><p>I slept well on Saturday night, considering I did not sleep until 7:30 am. Today, not much has happened. I burned my grilled cheese! That is so annoying. Tommy cooked and chopped the ground beef with the onion I chopped. Now, I will make spaghetti. </p><p>Today, we started late for a ride. We checked to see if the guy in Bessemer had tomatoes to sell from his front yard. We may have gotten there too late. Then, we went to Publix to get Lysol wipes bogo and Finish. I think we drove through the park. Anyway, we came home and watched the news. So, nothing much happened today. </p><p>Hopefully, I will cut his hair tonight. He needs it desperately. Tommy is so funny. He needed to go to CS to get a rain check. He said he stood in line. Well, then he talked about too many people being in line and going away and coming back...still too many people, so he left and came back. No wonder he could not get to the CS desk!</p><p>We have nothing planned for the week because it will be rainy. </p><p>How did your weekend go?</p><p>What plans in or out of the house do you have for this week? </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-32664713572776305372024-03-03T00:13:00.001-06:002024-03-03T00:13:23.760-06:00This and That Around the House<p> I tried calling the guy who sold me the mattress and base to upgrade what we ordered. But, he injured himself and did not come in to work. So, hopefully, he comes in on Sunday. </p><p>In the meantime, I feel terrible. I know you get tired of this complaining but consider how I feel with only 3 hours sleep two days in a row. That includes naps. Or, in the case of one day, no naps. I get grumpy.</p><p>These are the days that precooking and freezing are miracles for me. Before dinner Tommy said he could scrounge in the freezer to see what there was. He found a portion of a baked turkey breast for me that I ate with the last of the slaw and a can of asparagus. There will be enough turkey for both of us tomorrow if we want that. </p><p>He also found a freezer bag with a boneless, skinless thigh; one carrot; and two small pieces of potato--all baked together one day. He added the rest of the thawed broccoli to round out his meal. </p><p>These leftover meals certainly beat having to cook or eat a peanut butter sandwich that many older people eat. I am proud of leftovers that were planned. I think I cooked and froze his meal in January '24. He said the turkey breast was from January '23. </p><p>I am continually fighting getting my meds because of pharmacy and primary physician. I am not sure where the break in communication occurs. I often must leave a message. So, now I am out of med for diabetes. </p><p>Saturday, we awoke to see a huge yellow sticker on the car across the street. They have had a car parked partially on the street for well over a year. This car runs; there are never weeds; it is clean; the people are lovely. I wonder if someone reported them or if the police randomly found the car. Since it is in full view of our door and my chair, I just hope they don't think we complained. </p><p>The candy canes-red, green, and white--need to be rehomed. I am certainly not going to waste sugar consumption on candy canes. Not one was eaten. I put them in a red Moscow mule mug for decoration. They were 12 for 50 cents, so no big deal. I do not want to use them at all. I do know all the ways I could put them in and over other sweets. Just NO. They GO!</p><p>Nothing else was decluttered. However, Tommy did wash eight throws. They are all on pants hangers in a doorway since his dryer with heat from hell would melt them. </p><p>Does your decluttering ever involve candy? </p><p>Do you ever have trouble getting refills for meds? </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-41296954063376109132024-03-02T05:14:00.004-06:002024-03-02T05:14:58.160-06:00Mattress Base<p> Now that I know that the mattress base can have 'features,' I have to make sure mine does. I called but the guy has today off, and i have to wait until tomorrow to find out what mine does. I won't buy a power pack for the bed since getting on and off will not be a problem for me. </p><p>I quit typing and finally am too tired to go typing. So, this is it.</p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-18577144429712714402024-02-29T23:53:00.000-06:002024-02-29T23:53:58.337-06:00New Mattress<p> Tommy woke me at 10:30, per my request, so that I could continue with the mattress search. We planned to go to Macy's if all worked out. Well, no one answered until 1 pm, then we talked as I shopped over the internet and phone. Finally, at about 8 pm, it was settled. I am getting a mattress, the base that raises head and feet, mattress pad to keep mattress clean, and set of sheets. All was on a sale that ends Sunday. Because of price of what we bought, delivery is free. I will also get a mattress pad for comfort. I really hate the feel of foam! It appears that is mostly what is available. The mattress is not flippable. It can only be rotated.</p><p>One doctor tells me to raise head of bed and another tells me to raise foot of bed. Now, I can sleep bent. When I was in the hospital for hysterectomy, it felt good to barely raise head and barely raise feet. There is a cordless remote, so I will probably lose that all the time. Well, it won't be lost, just behind the bed beyond my reach. I bought sheets, too, partially with $10 reward and 15% off. </p><p>I knew we would not get out in rain tomorrow. So, I just did this today. I got the firmest mattress possible that was SertaPerfect Sleeper. It seemed Macy's was the best deal in mattresses. Plus, I don't think I could have slept on this mattress long enough to wait for another sale. When I find the bed I want that fits the base, I can get that, too. </p><p>During the month of March, I plan to work with the mailbox conversion for Christmas. I need to clean it and spray paint. Hopefully there will be enough dry and 80 degree days to spray paint. There is sharp metal where the guy cut the wreath that needs a metal file used to smooth it so it will not injure me as I work on the wreath halves. I also will accelerate the vehicle hunt, hopefully having bought at least one car before April. </p><p>It turned off cold today. We did not go anywhere. Tommy took clothes out to wash, got the mail, and took the garbage to the road. He listened to me negotiating, increasing his credit limit, and heated dinner. I hope this cold weather does not spoil trees blooming and azaleas. </p><p>Dinner: chicken breast, slaw, one tiny carrot, two-inch red potato, slaw, broccoli. Now, we must cook again or find something cooked in the freezer. Tommy had Cuban (spicy) pot roast and the same vegetables.</p><p>Hopefully, we can now resume the vehicle search. Then, we can get it adapted to pick up a scooter and get a scooter for me. </p><p>If you have an adjustable base for your mattress, how is that working for you? </p><p>Do you like Serta Perfect Sleeper mattresses? It has been forty-four years since I bought one, but loved it for forty years. On each side I had two surfaces for a total of four surfaces on which to sleep. So, it worked out well for me. </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-71661315149421167642024-02-28T22:33:00.002-06:002024-02-29T16:59:12.211-06:00Flabbergasted--Another Death<p> The Podiatrist appointment was today at 12:30 pm, We left the office at 3:30 pm. I was exhausted by the time we left. At 2 pm, I knew we would not be home for cleaner to come at 3 pm, so cancelled. Tommy carried crackers to carry us through. However, I had just eaten so made it fine. </p><p>As Pod finished, I mentioned the big 'freckle' on my big toe about 1/4 inch from nail. I said I was going to have it removed to be sure it was not cancer. Pod looked at me and said, "Do you know how rare foot cancer is?" I asked, "Do you know that several of my father's brothers died from melanoma that was untreated?" Pod said, "No." "Do you know my father died from pancreatic cancer as did his mother, my grandmother? Derm said, "No" I supposed I schooled her! </p><p>Funny thing--when I mentioned the spot, the freckle, or whatever it is, Pod tried to clean it off with alcohol and sort of scratched it. It was permanent. I thought it was dirty, too, weeks ago, but it was on to stay. </p><p>I felt like I was not heard, like Pod was taking away my agency. Well, I had determined that I would have the Derm remove the freckle and test it. </p><p>Pod came in limping with a boot, acting like walking was painful. It seems Pod was walking along and broke foot. Podiatrist breaks own foot while simply walking!</p><p>When we left the doctor's office, I took a prescription to Publix. I told Pod that Walgreen's said it was all the same, that they did not carry the drops she wanted me to have. She gave me another paper prescription to take to Publix. Publix Pharmacist said they could not order it and wanted me to take another iteration of the same med. Tomorrow, I will call another drugstore. </p><p>On the way out of Publix, I saw a bogo that I bought. Knorr's Pasta Sides were 4/$5. I imagine a one-pot meal for dinner. I bought four. Tonight, I used Fettucine and Broccoli in a Chicken Flavored Sauce. I decided to put the rest of the frozen broccoli in and a piece of chicken breast. Well, there was not much broccoli left so I put in a new bag of frozen broccoli, well, most of it. </p><p>Then, Tommy found two chicken breasts in freezer. The small one was only part of a breast and not enough for one person. So, the large one went into pot. It was only one vegetable, but it was delicious and easy to make. After I had a bowlful, I used Three Cheddar Shredded Cheese. Everything in this one-pot meal was bought bogo or on sale.</p><p>I chose three more sides:</p><p>Four Cheese Pasta. I did not mean to buy mac and cheese. But, I will either eat as it is or add enough to make it a meal for two.</p><p>Herb and Butter. Why did I buy two pastas like these?</p><p>Fettucine in a Savory Chicken Flavored Sauce. Okay, this pasta is better choice. All four will probably be made into four one-pot meals. I thought all four were fettucine!</p><p>I decided to call R, female friend who bought a fancy storm door that was a security door. I mentioned S, a friend of ours. She said he died, sort of as an aside. I knew he lost one toe to diabetes and his penchant for sweets, but I found out he was losing one toe about every two years. One lost toe would certainly wake me up. When they went into his house after he died, there was a three-pound bag of candy corn in his chair that he had taken to sleeping in instead of bed. </p><p>You may remember a friend's antique store that we ate in for Thanksgiving. I was looking for pictures just now, but cannot find them. </p><p>I asked R if anyone else had died that were our friends. She said T almost died but did not. S is gay man, longtime friend. Well, T and D are a gay couple. D was antiquing at an estate sale. He went into cupboard or closet, picked out some things, bought them, went home. The next day he went back to the cupboard/pantry and stepped in. Little did he know someone had gone in there and opened a trap door in the floor and did not close it. Of course, T fell through hitting many things including a wall. He was taken to ER. He suffered many injuries. </p><p>His arm suffered a trauma that was treated. Months later, it was bothering him but since the ER doctor had treated the arm, he assumed it was going to get better and did not seek further treatment. Well, months later when he did go back, doctor found staph infection. Soon, they discovered that he had staph in arm. It was in his spine. R said, they opened up his spine and vacuumed out the staph. It had damaged his spine so two rods were put on side of his spine to stabilize it. Then, the staph was found in bones of the arm. He cannot use his arm. </p><p>Since his husband, D, has dementia, he could not help care for him at home even with nurses coming in to treat him. Now, T is in nursing home. I am flabbergasted that one misstep could cause such damage. </p><p>S's death horrified me. The accident T had is almost worse. So, I am feeling emotional right now. It is hard to lose a friend and hard to think another almost lost his life. Today was a physically hard day and emotional. I am exhausted.</p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-78119837352329231152024-02-27T21:47:00.004-06:002024-02-27T21:47:53.269-06:00The Park<p> Today, I recovered from sleep loss and the malaise I have felt. It was weird. </p><p>Today, I tried to reach Macy's, but nothing worked. So, I will try again tomorrow, try a different tack. </p><p>I spray a section near my chair where there were/are still more fleas. We went for a drive, stopped at the park to watch tennis, walkers, kids playing and two baseball games. A guy went into the walking area. We saw what he carried, thinking it was some sort of bat or racket that he was carrying and maybe going to another place after walking. </p><p>The thing he carried was a 2x2x24" stick. There were pieces of metal, maybe brackets attached to both ends. I concluded it was meant to be a weapon. Eventually, Tommy came to the same conclusion. Maybe he is afraid in this park mid-afternoon. Since the whites were greatly outnumbered, maybe he was afraid of black violence. The way things are going around here, he should carry a gun. If we ever see him again, I want to ask him what he is carrying. Of course, he may be the violent one.I was not fearful at all. Neither was Tommy. </p><p>Buds were swelling. Birds were out and about. A bluebird sat on a birdhouse. I wonder about that since bluebirds don't like their houses close to things. This was six feet in front of the car. Dandelions were in abundance. Soon, it will be time to mow. </p><p>Near Christmas when we drove through the park, I was surprised by a cache of bikes. Some were tiny; some were the size a ten-year-old might ride. Earlier in my life I might have claimed on of the dumpster bikes to paint for the yard to hold flowers. Maybe if it had been warmer and drier in December, I might have gotten one for the yard. A can of spray paint would fix it right up. </p><p>People use the park dumpster for their personal dump. I have found things that I got for myself, but right now, I have forgotten. There are things in good shape that I don't get, but someone should. People leave the large things by the dumpster not inside. </p><p>Dinner--I had chicken with Vidalia bbq sauce from Sweet Baby Ray's, slaw, lettuce, tomato, huge plum. Tommy--honey baked turkey breast, slaw, carrots, peas, broccoli. </p><p>I may have broccoli later as a snack. Right now, I need to wash up a few dishes before the 10pm news. It has been five hours and there are no fleas jumping on me. </p><p>Not much was done today. Tomorrow, I have a doctor's appointment. That will exhaust me. Then, a woman comes to vacuum. UGH</p><p>Today, Tuesday, was not exciting, got a bit of decluttering done, but there was no drama. Today was restful. I needed that. </p><p>Was there any excitement in your life today?</p><p>Decluttering? </p><p>Creativity? </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-71761608851865033122024-02-27T02:44:00.003-06:002024-02-27T02:54:28.876-06:00Pants, remotes, vacuum, burger, slaw, weather, mattress, walker<p> For a few days, I have been so sluggish. Nothing seems bad, but I am in a haze it seems. </p><p>When I went to the grocery Saturday, I came home with two of the largest plums ever. Nope, did not buy them. I ate one. Was that bad of me? They would have thrown it away. </p><p>I found someone to come vacuum Wednesday. That is too long to wait, but at least it is something. She want $25 to vacuum. I wonder if that is per hour. She had husband speak to me. She will bring daughter to translate for her. I wonder if the daughter helps. We will see. I do doubt I will have her again. </p><p>We sprayed the house today and left to do things. I wanted to see if this guy in Bessemer who sells produce from his truck had things out. No. He will. I am sure he gets produce from the big Farmer's Market on Finley Ave, but I don't care. It's always delicious. The church was selling food, but I did not want to stop. We had a small, plain burger in a parking lot with drinks we brought from home. Basically, we kicked around, wasting time until the stench from the Raid dissipated. </p><p>Dinner--burger, slaw, lots of slaw for both of us. I only put a smidgen of salt in coleslaw, but put too much in today. Then, I over-poured apple cider vinegar in the bowl. I had already put lots of mustard in the mix. It was a spicy coleslaw tonight. Tommy thought the salt was just fine. Ick I suppose I should have put the other bag of slaw mix in with the strong one. </p><p>Due to the beautiful weather and high temps, I did not wear a sweater, jacket, or scarf yesterday or today. I wore an airy, loose blouse that was not warm in any way. In the house I have not had to cover myself with a throw or use a jacket. Next thing we know, we will need ac on and I will need a throw again! But, for now, the temps inside and out are perfect. </p><p>I think we will go mattress shopping at Macy's on Tuesday. They are having a sale as is everyone else. They do carry Serta Perfect, the kind I had last that I loved. I almost fell off the bed again. It seems I just sat on the bed, lay down and turned toward the other side of the bed. When I decided to turn back, I was too close to the edge of the bed for my comfort! It actually frightened me. I have a stool with a boom box on it beside the bed. I would put the boom box on the end table, but the boom box has an eerie, bright blue light that would keep me awake. So, it sits on the stool facing the box spring. </p><p>Tommy's last walker weighed 10 or 15 lbs.; this one--25 lbs. I am not sure how wide the last one was, but this one is 22 inches wide. He is ruining the corner of the wall. I put thick gorilla tape on the bottom where he was ramming the last walker. There was sheet rock all over the floor. He said he did not care. He manages to hit the corner higher with this walker. Plus, the tires are 10" and not 3". This time I will get one of those rubber/plastic corner protectors and figure out how to install that. He never runs into things in others' houses or in stores, but here he is not careful or caring at all. Of course, I will purchase that at the hardware store in Cullman. </p><p>His pants are getting too tight, so he needs new pants. I had to point it out before he even acknowledged it. Is this a guy thing? If my waist band were two inches too small, a person would not have to invite me to buy new pants. Of course, for the last 40 years, I have worn elastic waistbands for health sake only. </p><p>When I moved here, of course Tommy manned the remote. I had no desire for him to share it with me. Besides, it takes two remotes to work the TV. When he went to sleep, I would wake him to turn off the TV. One night about two weeks ago, he handed me the one remote and told me to keep it low, turn it lower so it would not wake me in the morning, and then turn it off. </p><p>In the meantime, he has 'allowed' me to use the other remote to change channels. I wrote how where different channels can be found. I think I know how to use both as well as he does, maybe. I suppose this is a breakthrough. We use a soft, zippered pencil bag to toss the couple back and forth. I leave the bag on his walker when I go to bed. It works for us. </p><p>I asked why two remotes. He said he never could get one programmed. I hate remotes I have to program. The next tv, we will each have one remote, not two different remotes. When he goes to the kitchen and we need to talk, if I mute the sound, we don't have to scream back and forth, not hearing each other anyway. </p><p>Does it seem all guys want to man the remote? </p><p>Do you know anyone who destroys corners, furniture, anything by hitting it with a walker or wheelchair? </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-25663797375724519852024-02-25T21:56:00.000-06:002024-02-25T21:56:18.851-06:00Cleaning a Hoarder's House<p><br /></p><p>Cleaning a hoarders house that is gross.</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdNJkRyzA88">Cleaning a hoarder biohazard kitchen for FREE - YouTube</a></p><p>This guy cleans houses for free. He is very compassionate toward the people whose houses he cleans. He points out the reasons houses get into this condition. </p><p>I suppose I have watched about ten hours of his videos. It is appalling how these houses look. Even at the worst, I have never seen a house like these. </p><p>Once you watch one of these, you will hear more about him. In a few of these he is very disrespectful to his son, calling him awful names. But, apparently, he quit that nonsense. His son and daughter and another young man work with him. He will tell you he is autistic, has a cleaning company that he does charge for his services, is 6'5" so he can reach the high stuff. </p><p>These videos are fascinating to me. </p><p>Oh, we went to Publix. As I switched carts in the lobby, I felt a flea jump onto my wrist. Conflicted as to what to do after I caught it, I went back outside to trash and put it in there. I did not want to infect the store or the outside. It would have jumped on someone else. </p><p>Have you ever seen a house in the condition of the kitchen or bathroom? He even had to wear a hazmat suit for the bathroom. </p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-27498795295910314442024-02-24T23:11:00.003-06:002024-02-25T00:57:14.534-06:00Leprechaun Balls<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEipTvI-hc5C4d2Z_jnJjG8HIFYeF2t99kQ1L1BGmf-u5Z9h9sOXUCO2t8DrbVm0PPfzMGKK8yTTaV82jHeXcPAXIRXCmvU6OeTCPbpyvTAIEaXK3LNfXSoox4NOwHkx__wkhJjDe-Ltekcyu9vpn4vFhGkXu9qjckY3CowHO91fBLLyiu3fUOhmmEGGyPI" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="688" data-original-width="474" height="342" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEipTvI-hc5C4d2Z_jnJjG8HIFYeF2t99kQ1L1BGmf-u5Z9h9sOXUCO2t8DrbVm0PPfzMGKK8yTTaV82jHeXcPAXIRXCmvU6OeTCPbpyvTAIEaXK3LNfXSoox4NOwHkx__wkhJjDe-Ltekcyu9vpn4vFhGkXu9qjckY3CowHO91fBLLyiu3fUOhmmEGGyPI=w312-h342" width="312" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://momfoodie.com/leprechaun-balls-a-st-patricks-day-dessert-for-grown-ups/">St. Patrick's Day Dessert: Leprechaun Balls (momfoodie.com)</a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">and another</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.msn.com/en-us/foodanddrink/recipes/40-green-foods-to-celebrate-st-patrick-s-day/ss-AATrdjj?ocid=msedgntp&pc=HCTS&cvid=48bdb3994f8746b0b8c8a0dd82dadfd2&ei=21#image=40">40 Green Foods to Celebrate St. Patrick’s Day (msn.com)</a></div><br /><br /></div>Since I did not feel like posting anything today, I thought this was cute. <p></p><p>Today was a nothing day in an effort to regain some strength and ooomph. I probably slept enough. Then, I slept about three hours in my chair as did Tommy but not so long he said. We did not go car shopping. </p><p>Dinner was ready in the refrigerator, but we added other things. I made tuna salad sandwich without eggs and had potatoes, carrots, and broccoli. He had some pork he said he found in the freezer, carrots, potatoes, and broccoli. </p><p>I did manage to put color on my hair, so feel better about my looks. Tomorrow, I will cut Tommy's hair. I keep putting it off but will get it done eventually. Okay, I will get it done tomorrow. </p><p>The recipe for leprechaun balls emphasizes it is for adults. I am quite sure you can sub other ingredients to make it child friendly. </p><p>My one St. Patrick Day decoration is a large Shamrock to go on front door. </p><p>Will you make something green to eat? I doubt I will. Do green beans count? </p><p>Do you decorate for St. Patrick's Day? </p><p>Wear green or a pin? <br /><br /></p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-15691678572929160922024-02-23T23:24:00.001-06:002024-02-23T23:24:58.046-06:00Alice Sent This Picture<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhP0SXHr3WOKH5XklGg_BqD0ShIm2a-AP-9EvZS5AuRYNJwP5b0VhetUthw0OWxDdJnaY9Uhf0sM1Nb7QNNAOMzAMX91ugNb3-VwmNe1R5Glxn7gfEuhMRazyA0QVgs8NHiBivsiKWh-IkpheuSJAsowfS47_vcgiEqRmO9UtKWSRcRWoh8FmMzNvtho3U" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="519" data-original-width="478" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhP0SXHr3WOKH5XklGg_BqD0ShIm2a-AP-9EvZS5AuRYNJwP5b0VhetUthw0OWxDdJnaY9Uhf0sM1Nb7QNNAOMzAMX91ugNb3-VwmNe1R5Glxn7gfEuhMRazyA0QVgs8NHiBivsiKWh-IkpheuSJAsowfS47_vcgiEqRmO9UtKWSRcRWoh8FmMzNvtho3U" width="221" /></a></div>It is made specifically for cleaning the windshield on the inside. I think I will give it a whirl so as not to hurt my shoulder and hand. Have you ever used one of these?<p></p><div>I received two checks in the mail, both for less than $10 one from a bankruptcy case$6.60. I would give you the details, but I forgot what one was for but it was $8.60. There is still a $5. check to cash. </div><div><br /></div><div>Today was a beautiful day, but I was still hurting, not wanting to go anywhere. I hated totally missing the pretty weather. </div><div><br /></div><div>This afternoon, I felt a feeling on my foot and quickly got lotion to put on it. As I looked at my foot, I thought I saw a flea. Immediately, I put the lotion on it to immobilize it. As I got it up with the ointment/lotion, it tried to get away. Thankfully, it was mired down and could not escape. I had a bowl with leftover milk where I had emptied all of the milk possible. Immediately, I put water in the bowl and ended up with murky liquid. I put my index finger and thumb that had captured the flea and got the flea into the water. A little later, I found another flea on my foot and likewise disposed of that one. The thing with the second flea was that I was trying to kill it with my thumbnail and it jumped. I figured it jumped on me. I bent over floor and shook my hair. The flea fell back on my foot. I got more lotion to help capture that one. About thirty minutes later, a flea was on my wrist. So, I drowned another flea. </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>I had Tommy spray the floor in front of my chair and under it. I had a basket of clean clothing nearby, so could not spray much until I get up shoes and laundry. I really hate fleas.</div><div><br /></div><div>Two hours later I went to the kitchen to see if I really had three fleas since the murky liquid made it hard to see anything. Yes, as I poured it out slowly, I could see three fleas. Miraculously, they were still moving. Now, they are down the drain. Hopefully, they die. I am shocked they were still kicking around after all the lotion and water. I hate fleas. Fleas love me. </div><div><br /></div><div>While I was taking photo from email to send it to my blog, somehow, I put it into Paint and was able to do all sorts of things to the picture, mainly write on it. Cool!</div><div><br /></div><div>Afterwards, I put a pink towel on the floor in front of my chair, sort of like a rug so I would not step on the wet flea killer. Just now, I bent over and could see a flea crawling on the pink towel. I sprayed it with flea killer which blew it elsewhere every spray. I also put OFF on my legs. </div><div><br /></div><div>Nightgowns and underwear are hung in doors of bedrooms. Towels and washcloths are ready to fold. That is my sole contribution today. Well, I did cook two hamburgers and took eyes from red potatoes. And, I did declutter a smidgen. Now, I know which receipts to save and which are not in recycling. </div><div><br /></div><div>Dinner--hamburgers, carrots, potatoes, broccoli (which we forgot in microwave).</div><div><br /></div><div>We decided not to go to Cullman tomorrow since I am still bone-tired. </div><div><br /></div><div>We are both looking pretty skaggy--his hair is too long and mine desperately needs color. So, maybe we will do that tomorrow. We cancelled an outing today. We do have another planned for Saturday. </div><div><br /></div><div>Resident Alien is back!!! Do you watch this?</div><div><br /></div><div>I hope everyone's weekend is predicted to be as pretty as our weekend will be.</div><div><br /></div><div>Do you have a car windshield inside tool like the one in picture? If so, how is it? </div><div><br /></div><div> </div>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3321084510373631678.post-23691931012093531552024-02-22T22:02:00.001-06:002024-02-22T22:02:27.752-06:00This and That, Nothing Much, Connie's Question<p> Today, We Rested! mostly</p><p>I hurt all over. Walking on rocks at the dealer yesterday made Tommy's feet hurt. By the time I woke at 10 am, I had had 11 hours sleep counting the 4-hour nap before bedtime. However, my body still was quivering from pain. </p><p>The plan was to go back to look for a car on Friday or Saturday. Now, the plan is Saturday. We think Friday would be too soon for us to punish our bodies again. </p><p>We went to pick up the ads this afternoon. A cursory glance in the car yielded nothing to interest us. We both go over it again to make sure we did not miss anything. I become ill if I read in the car, so I may have hurried past something. This past week, we bought nothing from the ads.</p><p>I found a place to buy Ball bee jars, so I will get those. Plus, I need to get a purse repaired. Both these will be Saturday chores. </p><p>Connie asked what I was going to do with the material I bought. The answer was in the post that disappeared. Maybe I will make a Barbie dress, Cabbage Patch clothes, anything Christmasy. The other fabrics were equally suited to all these items. In the past I made dozens of capes and sold to a costume shop. This was back when Harry Potter was first hot. Now, all the characters have some kind of cape but not the colors I have. Connie, maybe I am collecting fabric. I don't know. It was a sale! lol</p><p>I just awoke from a 2.5-hour nap, just in time for news. I had chicken with another salad from the lunch. Now, I will have apples and blueberries. </p><p>I will answer another question tomorrow.</p><p>See? Nothing much.</p><p>What have you accomplished today? </p><p>Did you cook something delicious?</p><p>Do you buy material with no idea exactly what you will sew?</p><p><br /></p>Lindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14991571309786149363noreply@blogger.com10